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YOU DON'T WANT KIDS? WOW WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?

Even if I offend a multitude of mothers who consider child rearing to be a gift and a purpose to fulfill, I can't hold off from expressing my true sentiments any longer. 

Yes, it's possible I'll piss off some of my friends, many of whom are chasing dirty little rugrats around the living room or cleaning poop off of their walls as we speak.

I may even lose some dedicated subscribers who have been receiving my blogs and supporting my efforts since the beginning.

But you know what?

But you know, it's time I don't care anymore because, to be honest, I'm a little bit bored with playing nice. 

And if it helps other women say yes to what they want in life - especially if that means saying 'no' to making babies - then I'm cool with taking the risk.

HOW TO MANIFEST WHAT YOU WANT - THE SWEET AND EASY WAY

The art of manifestation is all the rage these days. And I admit, along with man buns and The Vampire Diaries - I say yay!

The cool thing about manifesting what we want (also commonly referred to as the Law of Attraction), is that it carries with it a magical component - in the sense that we can create our desires out of thin air.

Pretty awesome right?

3 WAYS TO FIX THAT BAD ATTITUDE + GAIN THE RESPECT OF YOUR MAN.

The need to feel respected has been coming up a lot for me lately, specifically in my relationship with Ken (my main squeeze).

In fact, 3 times in the last week I've heard myself say things like:

"Can I get a little respect here?"
"Dude, where's the respect?" 

And my personal fave: 

"Show some respect to your goddess of a woman."

(Haha, I must have really been feeling it in the moment on that last one because I never say shit like that...especially when it comes to referring to myself as a goddess.)

But what does 'respect' really mean, when we are asking others to treat us in this way?

Read on to find out...

THREE MAGICAL TIPS TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS WITH LESS STRESS AND MORE FLOW.

A few years back I was  living at a retreat center here on the Big Island of Hawaii, and there was this...ahem...interesting...man who lived there as well. 

He called himself an intuitive, and was able to see things outside of the physical world. 

I guess you could also call him clairvoyant (not that any of that meant anything to me at the time except for that in my mind he was now a 'hippie'). 

Anyway, he always generously offered his services to the community so one day I decided to shake things up a bit and take him up on the offer...

DO THIS ONE SIMPLE THING TO INSTANTLY FEEL BETTER THAN EVER

Your experience of life is based on the energy you give it. 

If you're tired, irritated, and unhappy, it's time to stop what you're doing.

Stop spinning your wheels trying to prove yourself to others, because all you're really doing is validating your own lack of self-worth.

Stop feeding yourself a story that repeatedly makes you feel like shit.

Stop lying to yourself about how you really feel.

Because if you don't like what you're experiencing, you can change it.

All you have to do to start is go within.

Right now.

Before you take on anymore useless tasks...

ON DITCHING MY ONLINE COACHING SERVICE AND FEELING BETTER THAN EVER

 

The online world has gotten pretty out of hand, and I'm not convinced it's a good thing.

Yes, instagram is super fun.

Yes, shopping from my couch has been a godsend.

Yes, watching Kelly and John John duked it out in the semi-finals last year in Tahiti from our computer in Nicaragua was fucking epic.

And there's no doubt I will continue to enjoy the unfathomable gifts the new age has to bring.

But I have issues with this one annoying thing...

MONEY ISN'T EVERYTHING - IT'S THE ONLY THING (HOW THIS MONEY MYTH COULD BE SUB-CONSCIOUSLY SABOTAGING YOUR SUCCESS)

I grew up hearing from dad (on a regular basis) that; "Money isn't everything - it's the ONLY thing."

Needless to say (as the black sheep of the family), I've been living the complete opposite kind of life by making choices that have had NOTHING to do with the money.

From being a professional athlete, to living in a community in Hawaii, to becoming a surfer (just to name a few). 

Now I don't know that I did this to intentionally rebel against my family, because honestly I just wanted to feel good, so I'm pretty hell bent on making decisions that lead me in this direction, like the fact that I don’t have a corporate job, I don't have kids, and I won't allow anyone to dictate how I live my life. 

IT'S NOT ABOUT THE FOOD: HOW TO LOSE WEIGHT BY GAINING MENTAL STRENGTH (ANYONE CAN DO IT)

 

I often refer to life as female ninja training.

Because unlike male ninjas, female ninjas don't use weapons to make things happen, they use the strength of their minds. Yes, they often use manipulation and coercion of others to get what they want, but hey, that's the job they've been trained for. Point being, their awareness is so badass they can psychologically manhandle anyone.

And yours can be too, because the process of re-training your mind isn't hard. It just takes persistence, willpower, and faith. 

Remember: The mind is mightier than the sword, so if you want different results, the first step is to take charge of your mind.

Alright! Are you ready to work it?